Category Archives: Philosophy

[Post from Paul] Remembering Pam

I said a few words, this morning, at the end of Pam’s funeral service.  My plan was to share some thoughts with all the folks who were kind enough to come and to say goodbye to the wonderful woman we … Continue reading

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[Post from Paul] Gone Fishin’

To all you wonderful, amazing people: Since Pam’s death early Monday morning, Angelique and I have been very busy.  It’s a big deal planning for a funeral — especially a funeral for a big deal like Pam.   There are … Continue reading

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[Perchance To Dream X : Paul’s Live Blog — Sun 7:27 pm] Knocking on Heaven’s Door

Pam has never wasted any time thinking about “what happens after”.  She’s always kept her focus on the job at hand.  Right now, though, the ‘job at hand’ is to pass away.  My job, and the job of everyone else … Continue reading

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[Perchance To Dream IV : Paul’s Live Blog — Fri 9:47 pm] The Commandment that Commands all the other Commandments

Earlier today I spoke with Vicky Lee Boyajian, the greatest caterer in all of Belmont and parts of Watertown.  In June of 2009, Vicky catered my daughter Angelique’s High School Graduation Party.  Those of you who were there know what … Continue reading

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[Perchance To Dream II : Paul’s Live Blog — Fri 5:03 pm] Wish You Were Here

“Are you really Live Blogging this?” As you’ll remember from my last post, I’ve made it my business to provide Pam an ongoing ‘circle of love’ during this part of her journey.  From time to time I remove myself from … Continue reading

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[Perchance To Dream I : Paul’s Live Blog — Fri 3:43 pm] Gratitude Only

To all of you, each and every one: It surprises me, now, to read Pam’s last post.  The part that surprises me is that she wrote it just five days ago.  In those five days Pam has really unravelled.  That … Continue reading

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[Post from Paul] Flickering Flame

To all our thoughtful, prayerful and caring friends: Ever since Pam was diagnosed fourteen months ago, people have regularly come up to me to ask how she’s doing, or to ask how I’m doing, or to ask how Angelique is … Continue reading

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